The recent story of Chris Cook of the Minnesotta Vikings touched home when I read it. Its a tragedy that such a great player or any person for that instance to be engaged in a DV situation. These situations happen in many households across the country and is very unfortunate.
Studies have been done over and over about the emotional eruptions and how they occur, why they occur and when which only gives a reader and/or researcher the shell of the phenomenon. Most people need to know the variable in the equation along with their functions and it all boil down to someone being hurt and saddened emotionally. But before the bottom line emotion can be "expressed" which is a key aspect, the "wall of pride and ego" fall from the sky bocking it. In this instance, instead of crying or simply expressing the pain felt, anger and rage is illustrated when indeed anger is not the real feeling, its the result of blocked/suppressed sadness.
I send my condolences to both of them and their families. I hope this sheds light to both of them so that this mistake is not made in the future. For every action there is a reaction but expressing the bottom line emotions without suppression will give better results. This must be remember day in and day out.
Peace and Love to the Sports and Entertainment Industries.
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